The Comfort of Jesus
And Jesus said, "Everything Happens for a Reason." Wait. No? He didn't say that? When told His friend Lazarus was dead, He said, "Well. I guess He's in a better place." Wait. No? He did what? He wept. If these are your go-to phrases when trying to comfort others, please stop. To say that someone's loss to death is a joy to those who have died is a way of saying "Stop being so selfish." To say that calamity "happens for a reason" is an invitation to BE selfish; the determine how this one event that affects MORE than one person affects ONE person. Jesus said His spirit remains with us. View life events from Jesus' loving view. You won't see "reasons." You won't see "the whole plan." You won't see the future. You will see that all of life is temporary; the joys and the struggles. While Jesus was with us, He loved. With His Spirit, do likewise. When someone asks you, "Why is thi...